Jan 2 2019 My New Year's Resolution 2019Category: General     09:54AM   1

My New Year Resolution 2019

 

New Year’s resolution- a promise to do something differently in the new year.

I don’t believe in NYRs, why? I believe if one truly seeks change for the better, they will change immediately. Also, change is easier said than done. In order to change it takes some sort of sacrifice, repetition of new behavior and brutal self-analysis. Of course, not in that order and not so general. We can’t say we have changed by just doing a simple gesture. We must become a different person. I think once a person acknowledges that doing something differently is a process and a battle, which they must conquer within themselves then, they have a better chance at succeeding change.  We can agree the main reason behind NYRs is to maybe have peace, better health or to become prosperous. The revolutionist’s common goal is happiness, right? I don’t know about you, but I do not wait on time to establish abundance or to “make a promise to do something differently in the new year”.  Passion. It takes passion. What do you think?

Do you have a NYR? If so, share your goal(s) below. If not, explain why.


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Philly H said on 01-06-2019 at 10:39 am:
Hi Camille, of course people are a bundle of routines & habits. Changing oneself does require changing one’s own habits. For certain, change is a result of repetition & self-analysis, but does the process necessarily require words like “brutal” or “battle”? Conventional thinking maintains that "brutal & battle" are necessary components of personal change. Go ahead and suspend that myth. If we anticipate change in terms of "brutal & battle" then it’s mostly a learned condition. It’s a survival mechanism we’ve all learned resulting from our awkward development years. And guess what? These survival mechanisms don’t necessarily serve us well as adults. But our nerve centers run deep which affect our thoughts & actions.
What if you are FREE to do, be & have without "brutal or battle" as part of the equation. Or if "brutal & battle" are in the equation then it’s only temporary & minimal. These days, luckily, there are mind hacks that can neutralize these hurdles. I’m not suggesting drugs, alcohol or even meditation (that takes 20yrs to master) to neutralize your brutal & battle moments. Luckily, I am a very giving person & to willing to discuss.
My NYR is to hire escorts of the ebony variety here in Philly, and then Amtrak my way to see a certain NY escort.